Microblading: Would I Do It Again?

This is my very first Beauty post, and the beginning of my new Treat Yourself Tuesday series. Each week, I will be posting a “spoil yourself” type of article, aimed at encouraging all of you (men included!) to take care of yourself first.

These might be informative posts covering things like myofascial release massages and foam rolling. Maybe a recipe for a tightening face mask that you can make at home. It could even be a review of a big treat, like a weekend at my favorite resort. Who knows?

No matter what, it’ll be my (and your) reminder to take at least one day each week and, well… treat yourself.


I recently had the chance to do something I’ve been wanting to do (and researching) for a while now: I got my eyebrows microbladed.

The name might sound a little intimidating, but it shouldn’t. By the end of this, I hope you’ll see why it’s the (second) best cosmetic procedure I’ve had done!

A few months ago, I contacted Angela of Ella Esthetics in Arlington, Virginia for some info. I had run across her work on her Instagram page and absolutely loved the brow transformations I had seen. While I have fairly dark brows, they’ve never been long or thick enough for my liking. Now that everyone’s big, bold, “on fleek” brows are trending, my face needed a little extra oomph (like these ladies below).

Angela responded my emails quickly and even took the time to answer more questions over the phone. She walked me through the entire process, from booking to touch-ups, and made me feel completely at ease.

By the end of our call, I was ready to hop on her website and book an appointment. I knew that I would need to limit my sweating for at least the first week after the procedure, so I planned it for the Monday following my August photo shoot.

Getting Ready

I walked down the steps and into the studio, and was taken aback by the gorgeous setup. Everything is clean and beautifully simple at Ella Aesthetics, and I instantly felt at home. After a few intake forms, we were ready to get the ball rolling.

First, we took some time to figure out what I wanted out of my microblading. Did I want a more dramatic arch, thicker brow, darker color?

I personally wanted a longer tail (the corner that trails off toward the side of your face), higher arch, and deeper color. No problem, she said!

Angela then got to work on drawing my brow layout.

For you ladies considering microblading: NEVER let someone touch your face with a needle who hasn’t first drawn out a guide that you absolutely love. I’ve heard stories of the process being done freehand – while you might luck out, you also have no say in it beforehand. Choose someone who spends a bulk of the appointment measuring out your perfect brows first.

After meticulously drawing on and measuring my face, Angela showed me my ideal brow shape… and it was precisely what I had envisioned. (Sexy look, huh?) Now, it was time to slather on the numbing cream and let it sit while she tested out and custom mixed my perfect brow shade. Then, about 30 minutes later, we were ready to begin.

The Process

Angela had me lie back on her comfortable table while she got prepared. She showed me the brand new, disposable “blade” that she would be using on my brows – contrary to the name, it’s not even a blade. It’s a line of very fine needles that combine to create the gorgeous, wispy strokes that would imitate my natural brows. It didn’t look very intimidating at all!

I have a very high pain tolerance (my kids were born at home, without drugs, if that tells you anything), but I’ll admit: I was a little concerned about the pain, seeing as I’ve never had any procedures done to my face.

It didn’t hurt A BIT. High pain tolerance or not, it just didn’t hurt. The noise was the most bothersome part, and sounded a little like baby velcro being pulled. There were a few spots where I felt the pigmenting more than others, but even then it hurt infinitely less than tweezing or threading my brows. Easily tolerable, and we held a conversation the entire time.

Before I knew it, she was done. She let me sit up and handed me a mirror so I could inspect her work. I asked to move the inner brow a bit, so she spent another few minutes perfecting that to my specifications. Then, after my approval, she set the color.

This was done by coating my brows with excess pigment, pushing it into the new lines that she had created. This is to improve the number of strokes retained – with microblading, there are always a few lines lost in the healing process and some color will lighten. By letting additional pigment sit, it would improve my end result.

I’ll be honest, though, this part wasn’t as comfortable. The pigment has alcohol in it and my brows were just irritated enough from her work – it stung a bit while I laid back and waited, but it was just a couple minutes of discomfort. No worse than some facial masks or lip plumpers that I’ve used, but definitely the least comfortable part of the entire procedure.

Letting It Heal

Now that I had some sexy new microbladed brows, I had to treat them delicately for a couple weeks. In order to better my chances of a successful end result, I needed to keep them dry and make sure I didn’t scratch or rub them. This meant using makeup remover wipes for the first 3 days and being careful not to saturate them with water or sweat until they were healed (no cardio for a few days or, if I did run, I needed to use one of these bad boys).

If they got wet, I was to lightly dab them dry… no rubbing! If they itched as they healed (which, they did), I was to tap on them lightly. This helped quite a bit at soothing the itch, and before I knew it, the two weeks was up.

Now, I just need to wait a couple more weeks to head back for my touch-up. At this appointment, Angela will fill in any spots that didn’t take, as well as change anything about the brows that I would like to improve. I may have her raise my arch even more – she gave me perfect brows, but I am obsessed now and think I want to go even more dramatic. Who would’ve thought?

Common Questions

Some of the things I’ve been asked the most since mentioning my brow procedure:

Did it hurt?  Well, as you read above, it really didn’t. Once the numbing cream had worn off and the pigment was spread on to sit, it burned a bit. But it wasn’t intolerable – if extractions during a facial were considered an 8 (more like the 8th circle of hell, in my opinion), this was maybe a 3. Easy peasy.

What if they mess it up? It’s permanent!  Well, first off, it’s semi-permanent. But yes, it’s going to stick around for a while. You want to make sure you find someone who has been properly trained and has logged enough hours performing the process. Ask when they started and how many procedures they’ve done. Check out their online gallery and make sure that they’re practiced in creating the look you’re going for. If you want a subtle brow, don’t go with someone who only creates dramatic, Hollywood arches. And you can also ask around – ask your friends, ask the ladies at your local Sephora. A personal referral is a great, honest resource.

It’s so expensive… is it really worth the money?  Oh my goodness, yes yes yes! It is wonderful to be able to hop out of bed in the morning and feel made up. I can swim, work out, hit the sauna, take a shower, and my brows don’t go anywhere. No more worrying about powders and creams, constantly screwing up one brow and making it look different than the other. This is one beauty regimen that will become a bi-annual staple in my life (you need touchups every 18-24 months).

As for the cost, I personally feel it’s well-worth it. The amount of time and meticulous effort that goes into microblading is incredible. This is something you will show to the world every single day, which has its own inherent value.

**Plus, Ella Esthetics has been wonderful enough to extend a discount to my readers and social media followers! Until October 15, if you book through their website and put Steph50 in the comments, you will save $50 on your service. Angela is one of the most affordable artists in the DMV area already, so this is an amazing deal. It also includes your touch-up service, as long as that’s booked within 9 weeks of the first appointment.

Would I Do It Again?

Absolutely, and I’ll probably drag my mom to get hers done, too. The difference that a perfect brow can make for your entire face is profound – people may not realize what is different, but I guarantee they will notice something.

You’ll look more awake, more put together, and more glamorous, without even trying. Plus, for someone who works out 6 days a week, this is one part of my face that I won’t sweat off. To me, microblading is worth every penny.

Have you looked into microblading or semi-permanent makeup, like eyeliner? What are your biggest concerns?

 

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Nothing Blooms All Year

As so many of my competitor friends enter their offseasons, and as the holiday season quickly approaches, I have seen a lot of talk on social media about body image struggles. How hard it is for so many people to accept their bodies at their current stages, even though they look phenomenal.

It’s very difficult to watch your body transform as you lean out for a show or shoot, just to loosen up the reins and quickly gain back fluff. The average person who doesn’t “lean out” for a specific cause probably doesn’t understand the effect this has on your mind. It’s very different from being on a gradual fitness journey, where your body changes slowly and healthily over time. Where you know what to expect each day. While you are constantly dropping weight and size (or whatever your goal may be), it’s a slow process.

When “in prep,” whether for a photo shoot or a competition, athletes will drop substantial amounts of fat over a very short period of time. For some, this involves substantial caloric deficits and a lot of cardio. Honestly? The way many, many athletes approach this is not very healthy. (Of course, you can make the process as healthy as possible. You can also reverse diet wisely and enter a healthy offseason, where you build up your food intake and grow muscle. You CAN make it easier on your body.)

But I digress. My point is, it’s very difficult to watch your body change so rapidly over such a short span. To wake up each morning and not know what to expect when you look in the mirror, because the changes are happening so fast. Maybe your face shape changes. The shorts that always fit you perfectly are now slack around your waist. Maybe you have visible abs for the first time in your life. It’s exciting, but it’s fast and aggressive.

And, seemingly in a flash, it’s gone. Our face fills out a bit more and our abs soften. The pants that were hanging off our hips 2 weeks ago are snug again. How did 10, 12, 16 (or more!) weeks of hard work disappear in such a short period of time? It doesn’t seem fair. Add to that the fact that our social media feeds are flooded with gym selfies at juuussstttt the right angle. Tanned babes showing off their ab flexes with the perfect amount of lighting. The sad, soft, makeup-less reflections staring back at us in the morning seem even more inadequate than ever, thanks to Instagram.

We all hear it and many say it, but I think some of us don’t want to believe it deep in our minds. So I’m going to say it again, both for you and for me: it’s not possible to be “stage lean” year-round. Sure, there are some outliers who seem to be pretty dang lean most of the time — but how healthy are they? How is their metabolism and are their adrenals fatigued? Also, are they that lean simply because of diet and exercise, or is there more at play (ie: performance enhancing drugs)? You don’t know what goes on behind the curtain, but you must know that being in competition-ready shape just isn’t sustainable every day.

This applies to women especially. Our bodies require an essential body fat of about 12%, the minimum just for hormone regulation and metabolic function. And honestly? Our bodies reaaallllyy want us to hold onto a lot more than that.

For the vast majority of women, trying to maintain a “below average leanness” is a constant uphill battle. Our body will fight us every step of the way. If you’re on hormonal birth control, you’ll have an even harder time, as you are introducing additional hormones into your body that actually affect fat utilization and storage.

I say all of this merely as a reminder. “Nothing in nature blooms all year.”

Tulips emerge from the cold earth in early spring, throwing their bright colors against the remnants of snow. Lilies fill the air with their fragrant scent only when the temperature is just right. Roses bloom from their tight buds when the sunshine-filled seasons hit. In autumn, apple trees release their ripe fruit, and earthen vegetables are finally ready for harvest.

Would we appreciate all of these things if they stuck around all year? Would DC’s beautiful cherry blossoms mean nearly as much if they were ever-present? Could you really appreciate the act of harvest if it weren’t seasonal? Hell, who would honestly flock to Starbucks in March for a PSL (complete with a selfie, #fortheinsta), if they were available year-round?

Things hold more value in our lives when they are limited. We appreciate what we have a little more if we don’t always have it. It doesn’t mean that what we do have isn’t as wonderful or as beautiful. It just means that we can’t be in a constant state of “bloom.”

Now, I know I’m focusing on this in a physical, fitness-related sense, but this thinking really applies to EVERY aspect of your life. We go through periods of kicking ass in our jobs, only to fall into slumps where we drop all the wrong balls or feel stuck. Our relationships feel like a honeymoon for a little while, only to be rocked by periods where you’re constantly on each other’s nerves. Or maybe you have life perfectly on track and feel like Parent of the Year — life will 100% knock you down a peg by tossing you a curveball, and you’ll feel like an utter failure for a little while. Sometimes, we flipflop between these highs and lows from day-to-day, even!

No matter where you are, it’s important to find some pride in what you are doing. Maybe you didn’t rock that meeting this morning as hoped, but your awesome efforts have increased sales this quarter. Maybe you have had a bad week and didn’t make it to the gym once, but you still packed your meals and stayed on track. Or maybe you’ve gotten your kids to school late every single day this week, but hey, at least their folders were signed and they had on clean clothes.

Find pride in your achievements, rather than focusing on the shortfalls.

So, love where you were when you competed or had your photo shoot or leaned out for your sister’s wedding. But also, love where you are right now. Love where you’ll be after eating pumpkin pie with your grandma this Thanksgiving. And love the fluff after sharing cocoa and cookies with your nephews this Christmas Eve. Celebrate birthdays and engagements and promotions, and eat that slice of cake.

Don’t abandon your goals, of course, but remember that life is all about balance. If you’re dedicated to a healthy lifestyle, you can maintain that while still enjoying life.

If your goal is a certain kind of training, of course you should stick with it. THAT is what should make you most proud right now. Your efforts toward your goals and the things that drive you — six pack or no six pack, that shouldn’t change. But we all need mental breaks and our bodies need breaks, too.

You can still be driving down the same highway, even if you’re just coasting for a few miles.

You won’t always be at your peak, but that’s what makes  your peak so special.

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Homemade Muscle Rub for Aches and Pains

We’ve all been there. A new workout routine, lengthy training session, or even just sleeping wrong has left us sore and achy. Whether your pain is caused by DOMS (delayed onset muscle soreness) or you have sore shoulders from sitting at your desk, a nice muscle rub can be just what you need.

Of course, there are a number of popular rubs on the shelves already. Many of them smell awful, though, or contain ingredients like PEG-150 distearate and propylene glycol (used as a solvent in paints and plastics, as well as an antifreeze in various industries). I don’t know about y’all, but I don’t want to rub that onto the largest organ in my body.

Enter, my homemade muscle rub.

If you’re a mom, particularly a health-conscious one, you’ll probably have most of these ingredients lying around already. If not, you may need to pick up a couple things first. You can find almost all of these at your local grocery or, worst-case scenario, a Whole Foods. I’ve also included Amazon links to options for each ingredient, in case you’re like me and rely heavily on that blue Prime-taped box on your porch each day.

Once you gather your ingredients, the balm is very easy to make. Plus, it keeps for close to a year when stored properly.

What’s In It?

Coconut oilI prefer virgin, unrefined, and cold-pressed, which I buy at either Whole Foods or on Amazon. This provides a smooth base for the soothing oils, and helps maintain the balm’s texture at lower temperatures while allowing it to be easily rubbed in when warmed in the hands. (buy it here)

Shea Buttersoothes and softens skin (buy it here)

Beeswaxmainly for textural purposes, to keep the balm from getting too runny (buy it here)

Cayennethis will warm the skin and increase blood flow to the area, stimulating circulation and healing. The added topical heat will also soothe your muscle pain directly. (buy it here)

Gingeran anti-inflammatory that will reduce pain and inflammation when applied topically. It’s even been studied regarding its wonderful effects on osteoarthritis pain! (buy it here)

Camphorincreases metabolic activity at the site and improves circulation. Also, camphor has a slight anesthetic effect, so pain will immediately begin to subside upon application. (buy it here)

Peppermintthis menthol-based oil is a refrigerant, meaning that it will immediately cool the area once it’s applied. This provides a soothing effect and pain relief. It’s also believed that the presence of calcium antagonism in peppermint oil actually encourages the body to reduce its nerve response to an area, decreasing the pain signals your body is sending. (buy it here)

**If you were feeling particularly adventurous, you could add extra ingredients like arnica, which is great for bruising and swelling. I have used arnica after surgery and on my kids’ bruised knees. It’s even great for facial swelling and pain after removing your wisdom teeth!

Let’s get started…

Homemade Muscle Rub – A soothing balm to relieve pain, encourage healing, and promote circulation. Great for sore muscle, injuries, as well as general aches and pains.

Ingredients

  1. ¼ c coconut oil
  2. ¼ c shea butter
  3. 2 Tbsp grated beeswax
  4. 2 tsp ground cayenne
  5. 1 tsp ground ginger
  6. 10-15 drops Peppermint oil (you can add more if you’d like, once you test the balm)
  7. 10-15 drops Camphor (same as above)
  8. Small pot and heat-safe, glass bowl that can rest on top
  9. -or- small pot with a double broiler
  10. Coffee filter or fine cheesecloth
  11. Glass jar

Instructions

  1. Fill the pot with a small amount of water and bring to a simmer. Place the glass bowl or double broiler on top of the pot, ensuring that the water does not touch the bottom.
  2. Place the coconut oil and shea butter to the glass bowl and stir until it’s all melted together. Add the cayenne and ginger, and allow the mixture to heat together for 15 minutes. Then, add the grated beeswax and stir in until it’s well-incorporated.
  3. Place a strainer and coffee filter over your glass jar, or secure fine cheesecloth over the top with a rubber band (leaving a bit of slack in the cloth so that the mixture doesn’t spill over the edge of the jar when you pour). Slowly pour the melted oil mixture, ensuring that you allow it enough time to filter. You don’t want it to all overflow.
  4. After all of the liquid is in the jar and the spices have bee strained out, add your camphor and peppermint oils. Stir well.
  5. Allow the mixture to set at room temperature for at least an hour, then cover with a lid. You can continue storing the jar at room temp or move the mixture to the refrigerator.
  6. To apply: allow the mixture to warm up to room temperature, then take a small amount in your hand. Rub into the sore area in a circular motion, being sure to really work the balm into your tissues.Reapply as needed.
  7. **Do not allow the rub to come in contact with your eyes, and keep out of reach of children for the same reason.*

Note: You can keep at room temperature for 2-4 months or in the fridge for up to 10 months.

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